I am coming to the end of my story, which might be why it’s so hard to write at the moment. This is where I arrive at the “so what” moment— not just an end, but an answer to the question, why have we been reading this? What have we learned? I was reading a book about plot, and the writer outlined the transformation a protagonist must make over the course of a book. Her suggestions about what should happen to a character infuriated me, all of them slightly fake, Yankee Candle Factory versions of mulled cider and summer rain– a protagonist should “learn something” about their weaknesses, their weaknesses must result from an injury in the past. This seems like a revelation at first– of course this would make a person more interesting! They grow! They have skeletons! But then it starts to sound like paint by numbers psychobabble, revealing more about our self-help culture than about the human experience. Do we have skeletons? Do we grow?

And yet. And yet, buried in that maddening formula— the assertion that the character “grows” and “learns” or “overcomes weakness”– is an important point, and possibly the one that has been stalling me of late. What IS this story about, after all? What meaning(s) are we chasing? Why am I telling it? Where does it leave us?

I resist the premise that every story has a lesson at its heart, because that would imply we actually have answers, when sometimes all we have is questions. Answers are consoling, convenient, but generally misleading, and I don’t trust them. I sure as hell don’t have any in this story, which is basically me diving head-first into a hot mess of race and class.

And yet. And yet we need to resolve the story in some way. How else will we know it’s over?